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In Memory of Loved Ones Lost...
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At some point in time in our lives, loss is something we will all have to deal with. Whether loss of family... loss of a special friend... loss to death... loss to circumstance... recently loss... or over time - it doesn't get any worse than losing someone you really care about. And whether we were thoughtful enough to tell that person how much they meant to us while we had the opportunity or not, it seems there is always something else we should have said.

Thus this page was created for two purposes. First, it is an opportunity to honor that person and the impact they had on your life. Second, it is intended as a reminder to those who are lucky enough to have special people in their lives to appreciate what they have and communicate their love and gratitude each day.

This is the place to tell that special person you lost what you would say if you could. Only rules for your submission... keep it positive and relatively short. Only rules for everyone else... consider what you have and be thankful...

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Dear Dad ~

It's been 8 1/2 years since I lost you. Your passing was probably the most painful experience I've faced in my life. I didn't think I'd ever go a day without crying. It took awhile, but I have gotten to that point. I have my good days & bad days.

Recently though, I've been missing you so much. There are so many things I want to talk to you about. There are so many things happening in my life that I want to share with you - good things & some things I would just like your advice about. So much has happened in the past 8 1/2 years.

"The boy" just had his 12th birthday. You'd be so proud of the young man that he is becoming. He is so smart. You never got to meet your grand-daughter. She is beautiful. She was born about a year after you passed. I know you would have spoiled her rotten too. I get so sad thinking about her not knowing you. 'L' & I are still together, going strong. He has a really good job - I know you have always worried about that.

I find myself wondering what you would think about the decisions I've made since I lost you. I wonder if you are proud of me. I've tried. I've really tried to be like you in many ways.

I want to say I'm sorry. I'm sorry for not being a better daughter, or even just being a good daughter. I'm sorry for taking you for granted. I'm sorry that I didn't say I love you more. I can't even remember ever saying it until January 12th 1997 - the day you died. I'm sorry I didn't spend more time with you. I realize now how the time we spent together was priceless and so pure. I wish I realized then how special those times were.

Sometimes I dream about you. Those dreams feel so real. When I wake from them, I try to close my eyes in hopes that I'll keep dreaming. I feel like that's the closest I can get to you now.

I want you to know that I love you and even though I was a spoiled brat, I have always loved you. I miss you terribly. I can only hope and pray that God accepts me in heaven because I know that is where you are. And if/when we are reunited, I promise to never take you for granted. I promise to tell you how much you mean to me every single day.

But until then, I'll continue to smile/laugh/cry at our memories. I love you daddy. I'll always be your little girl.

Love & miss you lots,
Tadpole

Guy,

I hope you know that you were and always will be the love of my life. It's been just a little over a week since you left me. Things will never be the same. I miss you so bad .Please give me the strength to carry on. Thank you for the most beautiful words you could of ever said to me, the morning you took me to the airport to go see my sons. Little did I know that it was the last time I would ever see you. I Thank God for our 18 years of friendship and for the four most loving years a woman could ask for. You will be in my Heart and Soul forever.

I Will Love you for The rest of my life,

Anita

MFLM...

MY GRANDSON VINCENT... 7-23-92.....12-10-92 GRAM LOVES YOU BABY BOY.

MKS

Daddy...

My pain is beyond years. Beyond words. Nothing matters....why won't you just come back home? I'll do anything if you just come back home. Please, who is going to help me grow? Who is going to walk me down the aisle? Make my children laugh? I Need you, Daddy....and I Love you so. I'd do anything to hold you one last time....but I Feel you there all the time.

Stay with me, Daddy....Just a little bit longer.

Kevin,

We were only together a year and a half, but it felt like much more. I know you are in a better place now, and that you are my guardian angel. I want you to know that even though you went at 23 years old you lived your life to the fullest. You taught me how to love, and how to be who I am. I love you with all my heart, and always will. I will never forget you no matter what the circumstance is.

I love you.

Love Kili

To my beloved Julie,

I miss you more and more everyday - and its been almost 24 years. They say time heals, but as I get older I think of the things I was going to say to you at 12... when you got your period... and your first love... and your graduation... and your wedding day... and your first born child... So many traveled paths I wanted to experience with you.

I have been robbed of all those things. Remember when. at three and a half years old, you were taken from me? I learned to grow up too fast. I think of you everyday. I love you always and forever. I think of the three and a half years I had you... and that has to keep you alive in my heart. For as long as Ii live, memories are all I will have until we meet again... my angel.

Mommy will always love you. Please know this...

Brandon

I know we only knew each other for 2 years, but it seems like more time. I miss you more with every day that passes. But I know your looking down at me from Heaven... loving me as much as I love you.

Rest in Peace. God Loves You!

Beth

Dear Papa;

I never knew the true meaning of a look is worth a thousand words. But I think now that I do... for that day in the hospital, you had been in a coma for 12 days, and we didn't realist that you had woken up to say goodbye...

There are so many things which were left unsaid, so many things taken for granted, so many things which I wish I had taken the time to stop and ask you about. But now its too late.

Mum is heartbroken. We try our best to keep her company, but no one can ever fill the big empty space now that you our gone. I don't think anyone ever could.

I know that you are probably in a better place now. As if ever a man deserved to be in heaven... it's you! So many people have come to the house to pay their respect. And at the funeral there were so many people. We didn't realise that we knew so many people, but they had been affected - and always had been eternally grateful for the way that you had helped them in their hours of need. That's the man you were though... If you could help in any way you were always the first to offer - even if it meant sometimes that you went without. You are truly inspirational! And now I think that maybe you were a angel sent down from heaven as you were so perfect...

Sometimes we blame ourselves for being so stupid and self indulged. We question ourselves... how could we not see that you were ill? If only... But in the end, its what God wanted... He stole you away from us... it was your time. Now we are left with the pieces and the sweet happy memories which make us laugh and smile - yet break our hearts over and over again.

I just want to say Dad I love you. And I just wanted to make you proud. In my heart your memory lives. And as long as that remains so you will still live with me.

Cristine

Start the Healing...

Jimmy Lee Usry Sr.,

To a man that was truly loved by a selected few, because of whom you were - and not what you could give or what you had. We think on the times when life was filled with your laughter, running down the roads in Avery, Georgia. I can remember walking in the fields, hiding under tree to escape the summer sun and work (smile). Life was so much simpler; family was family nothing else mattered.

You were the youngest of your mother’s, children I youngest of my mother’s. Our mothers taught us that love and loyalty was our strength. Ever summer Aunt Cleo & Uncle Eddie Lee had six children to feed and take care of and that they did .We were up early (5:30am) working the fields or something. It seemed so hard than but looking back but it has built character in us.

My heart goes out to your children, my children and other family member who don’t know of joy and happiness that was shared those years, we were poor by the standards of man; (in terms of wants) - but rich in things of value; (a loving family). As for family members that have lost sight of that value... it is my prayer that they find it again soon.

When Aunt Cleo died and you came to live with us you became my big brother. There were times I could eat you up and times when I wish I had (smile). You were always there to protect me from anything even myself. Now what will I do. Mother took on the job of being mother to all her nieces and nephews. You were son she needed. Her heart aches with the lost of you.

We would give all the worldly things back gladly to have you here with us. Just to be able to call you and hear you say “Flute, what is it am busy”. I’d say, "just wanted you to know you are loved". You would reply,” love you too, Flute". Will the pain ever leave me? Just to be able to look in your beautiful hazel eyes again... feel your gentle touch on my hand.

What our mothers taught us about family love and loyalty was past on to Jimmy Jr., Tajuana and Tralynn. Their love for the family is more important than any riches the world can afford. The love of God is showing in their lives.

Flute

To Camille,

I just wanted to say bye and that I love you one last time. You impacted my life in so many ways. You were always there when no one else was. You cared about me even when we were in fights. You were a great person ...and my friend.

When I heard that you and your mom got in a car wreck on the interstate... I almost didn't believe it... I didn't want to. I didn't want to admit that you couldn't help me anymore. That you wouldn't be there to talk me through hard times. But mostly, I didn't want to admit that you were gone...and wouldn't be there anymore. But as I sat on my bedroom floor, and thought about all the good times we had, I knew you would ALWAYS be there for me and that you wouldn't leave me hanging without any help.

At your funeral I remember the Pastor saying that you lived the life that no one has ever lived...You were only 12 years old, almost 13 (in 7 days) and even though your time on earth was limited... you lived more in your lifetime than anyone has ever done. And it's the truth. When I first met you, I remember thinking "Gosh, she's the prettiest person I have ever seen!" With your smile, and your laugh... Ah, your laugh, it will be in my soul forever. I was so amazed by your looks and your personality. You were so outgoing. You weren't afraid of anything. I will never forget you, or your mom. You both impacted my life in so many ways... But I will know you will always be there listening if I ever need to talk.

I believe that you were an angel that God sent down from heaven to impact everyone's lives... And then you were taken from us to teach us not to take our lives for granted and to tell people that you love them today... because there may not be a tomorrow. God... what I would give to talk to you... to tell you I love you, just one more time. A part of you will always be here with me. Whenever I think of you I will think of your smile and your laugh and it will make me smile... You could always make me smile. I just want to say... one more time that I love you. And that not a day goes by without me thinking of you. I trust that you will watch over me and be there for me. I love you and never forget that!

Love your friend,

Caleb Northrop

To Bernard "Buddy" Jordan,

Words cannot express the great deal of pain and emptiness I feel inside. I hope and pray that you know that I loved you with all of my heart. And how sorry I am for not coming back to Connecticut, sooner to marry you and build a family with you the way you wanted. I am sorry that I allowed what others thought or would say about me coming back to be with you. I wish I had a better grip on my life and not worry about what others thought or think of me. Just maybe, today I wouldn't feel so hurt and empty about loosing you. God, had a better place in store for you for you.

Buddy, I often told you that I love you and I just wish I had more time to have proven that love to you by returning to be with you, marry you, and build a family together.

God, please let Buddy, know that I did love him and still do and always will, I would give anything to see him again. He touched so many people lives, Thank you God, for bringing such a sweet and wonderful person into my life for just a short time, I pray for strength to make it through the rough and sad time of not having him here to talk with.

I love you Bernard "Buddy" Jordan.

Love, Shirley Pittway

To Davy my husband and friend,

I never believed that you could be taken from me. How stupid could I be? I loved you so much but at times maybe I did not realise how much and took what we had for granted. Although I never doubted your love and I know you still do, I know that you are with me keeping me strong and protecting me. Life can never be the same and the pain will never ease but I have such beautiful memories that I will always keep and protect.

Love you always,

Dinah

xoxo

To my only son Bob,

I miss you more today than ever Bob. I will never be able to forgive myself for not being able to help you with your silent suffering. I am so sorry! I can't believe that it has been a year since you crossed over. Some days I think that my heart will explode from hurting so much. If only you would give me a sign, to let me know that you okay .

Love Mum.

Be sweet my son.

To my one and only love,

I have never loved ever since you left. I don't even think I ever will. I don't know whether you would like me to go on with this pathetic life without you cause I know for a fact that I will fail. We would sit down night and day planning on what our baby's name would be but I guess you will never see her. I love you and hope that you are happy. I love the gift you gave me. A child is the most important things in life.

From Anne

P. S. I love and miss you dearly

Kozar,

Words can not express the emptiness that I feel with you not being around. I know that God had another plan for you in his Kingdom, but it is still a trying ordeal with just the thought of your absences. Mom, Dad, Bootsie and the rest of our family miss you dearly and every so often we get the opportunity to share a laugh or two about something that you have said or have done but then the sadness revisits once again.

You were the most talented young man I have ever encountered in my life. I will forever miss the sound of your voice when you laugh, your smile that can brighten the darkest room once you have entered and your most humbled presents. Through your death I have striven to become a much better person in life. Through your life I have memories that will last my lifetime and will be shared with all that knew and loved you. Until we meet again, save me a seat next to you and Grandma.

Love Always and forever, your big sister.

Nonna

Wayne;

I miss you so very much and there isn't a day that goes by that you are not in my thoughts and in my heart. It's so very hard to imagine a world without your smile, your sense of humor and the closeness that we shared. I know that I must go on but my life will never be the same. I'll always love you!

Cheryl

In Memory of baby Victoria Johnson

To our sweet little Victoria, We miss you so much. Not a day goes by when we do not think about you and want to have one more day to hold you in our arms and tell you how much we love you. You were taken from us before we even had a chance to know you and to make sure that you knew how much we loved you. Your mommy, daddy and sister Kaitlin miss you so very much and hold on to each and every memory that they have of you. You will never, ever be forgotten by any of us. I know that you have brought such beauty to heaven as only a baby can. There is a hole in our hearts that will never be filled because you are gone....We remember your soft little cheeks and wish that we could kiss them again and one day I know that we will. When we see you again we will hold onto you and never let you go...

Love Auntie Lisa

To my cousin Jafus-

I wish I could give you a hug and tell you that I love you. You meant so much to us and when we heard that you had passed away, a part of us did too. It has been six months since your passing and it has not been easy without you. We miss your voice, laugh, your smile, and most of all the twinkle you had in your eyes when you were happy.

Although you may think that you didn't accomplish much in your short lived life, we just want you to know that you did a great job at just being yourself. It's a struggle everyday to know that you are not home and that we will never see you again physically. But one thing for sure we will raise your Son the best way we possibly can. We will let him know that you loved him and was looking forward to watching him grow up.

Jafus, we love you so much, still, you don't have to be "here" for us to still love you. We will see each other one day soon. I can't wait to see your hand reaching out to get my hand when it's my turn to leave. Love you Jafus - always. - Your cousin Jennifer

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To my loving son Christopher D. Oates II

My Dear son;

I just wanted to let you know that I love you and I miss you so much. I still sit and cry and think about you all of the time. I know you are in a better place and doing better than I am. I just want you to know that I love you and I will always hold you close to my heart. Your sisters and dad miss you a lot too. Kisses and hugs until we meet again.

From Mommy

To Harley

Not a day goes by that I don't think about you love. I wish I could have a couple of moments with you, just one last time. To see your smile, hear your voice and laugh, to feel your hugs. I'm sorry for all the pain I gave you when we split up but you became my best friend and you'll never know what kind of impact you had on my life. I loved you and could tell you anything. I miss you! - Liz

Love grows here.... To attempt to describe him is fathomless. He loved much, shared much, and gave his all. He was the salt of the earth and the pillar of strength. He was love. We can't begin to describe the hole that is left behind without Mike. No one could have met him and not be affected. For his steadfastness, devotion, and sincerity left its mark. He was love.

To measure his gift to humanity will be a lifetime task, for his seeds of love and human kindness shall grow. He has planted the precious memories in our hearts forever, motivating the growth of his special qualities... He was love. Therefore it is more important to add measure to his legacy. To take the seeds of his existence and nurture them to growth. Take his special touch and add to your garden of life.

Knowing that we have been blessed by his presence, enhanced by his love. Share the special memories and spread the special touch. Love much, care much, and share the qualities he demonstrated. His presence will be with us always For love grows here...

Many attempt to walk the walk and talk the talk but few walk in the footsteps of love. In Memory of my husband Michael Alan Lewis ... Jurene

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